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Little Notes from Your Therapist

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The Quiet Meltdown of the High Performer (and How to Outsmart It)

Burnout isn't loud. Especially when it wears designer sneakers.

The Quiet Meltdown of the High Performer (and How to Outsmart It) - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

The Doubt That Shows Up When Your Life is Finally Working

On the strange grief of getting what you wanted.

The Doubt That Shows Up When Your Life is Finally Working - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

I. Want. Privacy. My Hiatus from Instagram

What I've learned and where it's landed me.

I. Want. Privacy. My Hiatus from Instagram - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

You Don't Have A Bandwidth Problem

If everything feels 56% done and you're snapping at people you love, this is why.

You Don't Have A Bandwidth Problem - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

The Real Reason You Feel Mentally Stuck

What your nervous system may be trying to tell you.

The Real Reason You Feel Mentally Stuck - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

The Hoodie You're Wearing is Fine

What we're quietly saying to ourselves when we stop getting dressed.

The Hoodie You're Wearing is Fine - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

Everyone Got Their PhD from TikTok University, and Nobody is Getting Better

On what happens when an entire industry optimizes for content rather than actual change.

Everyone Got Their PhD from TikTok University, and Nobody is Getting Better - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

A Little Note on Confidence

Confidence is not something you are born with. It is a practice, and there is a part of the brain that builds it.

A Little Note on Confidence - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

A Little Note on Certainty

For when you're having an existential crisis.

A Little Note on Certainty - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

What It Means To Be A (Great) Mother

An homage to all great mothers.

What It Means To Be A (Great) Mother - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

How Grown Kids Become Babies (And How Not To Raise One)

A therapist's commentary on the Beckham-Peltz family feud, boundaries, and adult children.

How Grown Kids Become Babies (And How Not To Raise One) - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

She Didn't Want Kids. I Nodded And Said Nothing.

My internal reckoning and what I didn't let show.

She Didn't Want Kids. I Nodded And Said Nothing. - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

What's the 411 on The 511 Method?

Goal setting shouldn't be hard.

What's the 411 on The 511 Method? - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

The Things I Wish They Would Have Told Me

When I became a mom, I had everything prepared. Nobody prepared me for the rest of it.

The Things I Wish They Would Have Told Me - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

The Dangers of Writing: Why It's Scary and Why You Should Do It Anyway

On journaling, vulnerability, and what I was actually avoiding.

The Dangers of Writing: Why It's Scary and Why You Should Do It Anyway - Kofman Wellness, therapy in New York

When the Change You Chose Still Knocks You Sideways

A promotion, a move, a breakup, a baby. Why the changes you chose can still leave you unsteady, and what therapy does with that.

Yana Kofman, LMHC-D, therapist in New York City

Everything People Ask Me Before They Start Therapy

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Yana Kofman, LMHC-D, therapist in New York City

Why Do We Keep Having the Same Fight? A Therapist on the Pattern Underneath

A New York therapist on why couples keep having the same argument, what is usually underneath it, and how therapy helps you change the pattern instead of the topic.

Kate Staikos, MHC-LP, relationship therapist at Kofman Wellness

How Much Does Therapy Cost in NYC? Private Pay, Insurance, and Superbills Explained

What therapy in New York City typically costs, how out-of-network benefits and superbills work, and how to figure out what you will actually pay.

Yana Kofman, LMHC-D, therapist in New York City

What Online Therapy in New York Actually Looks Like

What happens in a telehealth session with a New York therapist, who it works well for, and how to set it up so it feels like real therapy.

Yana Kofman, LMHC-D, New York therapist offering online therapy
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